Try to imagine that there is a build-up of energy running up through your spine, down your arms and all the way up to the top of your head. This should allow for more sexual energy to course through your body and this will encourage that fabled full-body orgasm. Most people will naturally hold their breathe when they're about to climax — but you should try to fully inhale and exhale to ramp up the pressure.
Skip navigation! Sex is one of the basic pleasures of life, but the orgasm is anything but simple — especially for people with vaginas. The complexity begins with your anatomy.
Most of us grew up hearing the words "orgasm" and "climax" used interchangeably if we grew up hearing them at all, that is. But some schools of thought, like those around orgasmic meditation and extended orgasmactually treat them as two separate processes. It's a confusing concept, so when I learned sex educator Lucia Paxton was teaching a class on this very topic through O.
In order to have a full body orgasm and feel that intense pleasure, you need to practice. Many women complain about the fact that it takes us longer to get off than it does for men. Men only have two ways.
When a man or a woman gets an orgasm, then usually they have this huge feeling of release in the genital area. For men it comes with the ejaculation and for women often with the clitoris orgasm, sometimes with the lower vaginal orgasm. This orgasm is rather short, relaxing but not deeply satisfying.
Often, they talk about full body experiences replete with a sensation of tingling extremities that can linger for as much as 30 minutes afterwards. Not only are mine much more localized and fleeting, they also seem to be diminishing in power by the week. They just have less and less in common with the transcendent climaxes I hear about from women and the occasional dude.
I thought I was going to ejaculate, but instead, the tingling spread from my genitals to my stomach and legs, then all over my body. My eyes rolled back in my head, my groin pushed upwards, and I felt flushed all over. It was mind blowing!
Photo by Psalm Isadora. Let's just start with the basics: Any orgasm is a good orgasm. But what most women don't know is that you can experience six different kinds of orgasm through tantra.
Tap into your orgasmic potential and use its power to create the reality you want in your life. Did you know that having orgasms is one of the most healing things that can happen to your body? That having multiple orgasms is something anyone can do if they relax their body and allow the energy to flow?